Un-intelligent behaviour would be something like this:
Typing a long reply, submitting, and realizing once again that you didn't copy it ;-)))
Anyway, what I really meant to say is that I was reminded of the idea that IQ might not be the whole story if you have an IQ in the highly gifted range, but let your emotions (emotional bias?) influence your reasoning so much that you can't even consider the possibility that I might indeed just be curious, and not be fishing for compliments (only because you used to brag about your IQ..).
I simply should have said stupid ;-), but was reminded of a statement called "dissecting practical intelligence theory" or something along the lines where the author...who, I think, basically said that IQ is important, and the idea of practical itnelligence is garbage.......mentioned in her conclusion that it is true that IQ only is a (small?) part of what explains intelligent behaviour.
I think your replies were a perfect example..that emotional intelligence (not only interpersonal/social...but also intrapersonal (not letting your emotional bias,etc. influence you))..really is as important as IQ - when it comes to real life decision making, making decisions in business,etc. (where emotions play a role).
I don't know what emotional itnelligence is believed to be exactly, so maybe I shouldn't throw around these words....but I do believe that when you're not just dealing with numbers (maths, physics,programming,etc.) but are making (other..) decisions, then emotions(/context?) often play a big role.
I've seen it before that someone with a high IQ came to a stupid conclusion/made a stupid decision (and was extremely persistent about it being right), not because his IQ wasn't high enough, but because he had no "common sense"/couldn't let go of the idea that his theory must be right (when there was abundant proof in the "real world" that he was just plain wrong).
ANyway, I should have used the expression un-itnelligent behaviour ,but just said "stupid", I guess....but the reason I used that expressio nwas because I had been reminded of "dissecting practical itnelligence"(or something along thoe lines) where the author who was big on IQ/"g", mentioned that IQ is far from everything there is to intelligent behaviour.
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Another example of "un-intelligent" behaviour and letting your emotions influence you too much...would be the fact that I typed that long reply, when the smarter decision would have been to just ignore what you said, and don't waste any more of my time on it.
Not doing so, imho, was un-intelligent behaviour by myself..or well it was stupid ;-).
At least in most cases (should have typed "would have been" above), it would have been b/c normally the other person wouldn't have replied the way you just did ;-)
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Which (what?) argument do you want to continue, btw? b/c I didnt come here to win an argument, but to figure something out
